Passion may wax and wane in your relationship
But as OKCupid founder Christian Rudder wrote, in that same time frame, «OKCupid users are certainly no more open-minded than they used to be. If anything, racial bias has intensified a bit.»
Consider: In 2009, Asian men on OKCupid rated black women, on average, 16% less attractive than the average woman. In 2014, Asian men rated black women 20% less attractive.
You and your partner may not always see fireworks like you did in the early stages of your relationship.